The first rock concert
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- May
- 23
Bring it on. My kid’s 10 and I figure it’s high time he got his first rock concert under his belt. After all he’s a little metal head like his dad, and is pretty crazy about Green Day and My Chemical Romance. I’ve even gotten him into Black Sabbath and Radiohead.
But, aside from his recording-artist uncle, he hasn’t really been to a live show yet. We’re changing that.
How to start? My first criteria was that he fare better than I did for my first concert. I was in seventh grade and they gave out promotional tickets for the old Westchester Premier Theater. The performer was country-crooner-turned-casino-act “Mac Davis,”:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ZNWz00R3Ng&feature=related with comedian Gabe Kaplan — in his pre-Welcome Back Kotter days — as the opening act.
It got better after that. Linda Ronstadt was next, and before you knew it it was Santana, the Allman Brothers, Kiss, etc. By my last year of high school, we were at the old Palladium on 14th Street almost every weekend, watching everyone from Van Halen to Twisted Sister, and whoever else showed up to play that day.
Now it’s my son’s turn. And it’s just going to be our own thing, as the other half of our blending family — my girlfriend and her little boy — will hold down the homefront for the night. For the two of us, I think it’s good bonding time in a “coming-of-age” kind of way, although I suspect other divorced and single parents do these kinds of things as some sort of compensation for time lost or something. To me, it’s really just a great thing to share with my son.
So, the first thing I sought in planning it was advice. The “Family Education”:http://www.familyeducation.com/home website offered a list of suggestions on “what to keep in mind”:http://fun.familyeducation.com/music-performances/family-time/36505.html in such a situation. Some of it was common sense, some of it was silly. But it was advice nonetheless.
The next step was, where to go? I actually considered the Van Halen show at Madison Square Garden tonight. But the Garden was never great on acoustics, is kinda big, and it’s hard to get close to the stage. Besides, decent tickets for this show would’ve run me about $300 a pop. So, that was out. As it is, I had just missed a golden opportunity to take my boy to the Garden: My Chemical Romance wrapped up their tour there on May 9, about one week before I got the rock concert bug in my head. Smaller venues were okay, but they’re mostly just glorified bars which are fine for me, but not for a 10-year-old.
Ultimately, I narrowed it to three sites, including the Beacon Theater and the Jones Beach Theater. The third was “Radio City Music Hall,”:http://www.radiocity.com and that’s where we’re headed. That’s not to say that we may not pick up additional shows at Jones Beach or the Beacon later this summer.
Finally, what show to catch? Here’s what we picked: “Ringo Starr’s All-Starr Band”:http://www.radiocity.com/events/ringo-starr.html at the end of next month. I mean, the guy’s a former Beatle, has fun on stage, and puts together a fun group of musicians every time he comes around. This year he’s playing with, among others, Edgar Winter, Billy Squier and Colin Hays from Men at Work. My son loves Winter’s classic, “Frankenstein,” and the rest of it will be kind of a trip for me, since I listened to some of those guys in my teens and 20s.
There are still all these tiny worries dancing around my head, from the show running too late, to someone blowing smoke in his face all night, to drunken behavior around us — all relatively minor issues to me in the larger scope of things. Mostly, I’m kind of excited myself to see any kind of show after several years without one.
So, how’d I do? I gotta think it’s gonna be a thrill for him to just be at a show, let alone for someone legendary like Ringo. I still have it in me to take him to something more hard-edged down the line, and particular would love one guitar hero or another, as my son is learning to play. But, for now, we’ll see how it goes with the Beatle.















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Deb might be trying to tell us that the rock band, the Cars, is a good choice for a concert to take a child to because they and/or their audiances are quiet.
Or deb could just be attempting to be funny—or is really creepy. Not sure. But I’ll go with the first guess.
Jorge, I think your son has one heck of a dad. Have a great time and make memories!
The neurotic in me says bring ear plugs – I know from classes I’ve taken in audiology that some of the volume can cause permanent hearing loss (he has lots of years he’ll need his ears) – so those little ear plugs you can mold in your hands might come in handy!
The first (big) show I ever took my son to was the Trans-Siberian Orchestra Christmas Show at the Garden. Trust me, at 12 he didn’t notice that the acoustics were not the best. There are two really good things about the TSO show, so next Christmas you should really check it out. First, it’s a wholesome family thing – no rude lyrics, lots of feel-good uplifting moments. Second, it’s like any big concert you attended in the 70’s all rolled into one – pyrotechnics, fog, lasers, lots of heavy metal (I know what you’re thinking – heavy metal Christmas music? but it works). Check them out on the web if you’ve never heard of them. It’s now a family tradition – we go every year and bring my nieces & nephews now. I’m the coolest aunt around, apparently.
Jorge – that sounds great! Have fun. Last fall I took my daughter to her first rock concert. We saw Smashing Pumpkins at the Fillmore in SF. The pot smokers were a donwside, but otherwise she loved it!
You have great taste in music, btw. Radiohead is one of my faves.
Smashing Pumpkins? Excellent. I think the next one will be more hard-edged. My son’s something of a metal-head. We’ll see what comes down the road. I think the venue is key, which is why I’m trying to focus on smaller theaters. I also like momanon’s idea, to do something like TSO that’s more family-oriented, yet has all the perks of a full-fledged rock show. So, good posts all around.
I almost took my 12 year old son to see Tool last year, but he chickened out at the last minute. Luckily, my neighbor happily agreed to go with me. The funny thing, his 17 year old son LOVES Tool, and was extremely jealous that his dad and I got to see the show.