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Jorge Fitz-GibbonJorge Fitz-Gibbon is a reporter in the Special Projects Team at The Journal News. His career as a newspaper reporter has spanned more than 20 years, and has included stints at the New York Daily News and Gannett Suburban Newspapers, the predecessor to The Journal News. His career as a dad has spanned 10 unpredictable years ... and counting.

E-mail Jorge Fitz-Gibbon at jfitzgib@lohud.com

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Welcome to Dad’s House

April
25

The more I search, the more I find.

As in more single-parenting websites. This is a particularly good one from David Mott, a West Coast dad who runs the Dad’s House blog. David is a divorced dad with half-time custody, and addresses everything from solo parenting to the single-parent dating scene and all the issues in [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on April 25th, 2008 | 2 Comments »

The prom date debate

April
23

Looking for input on this one.

This is an issue that came up in a friend’s family, and I differ with my girlfriend and others on it. The scenario is this:  A 15-year-old boy was asked to go to the Senior Prom by a senior at the school. The parents know each other and the kid’s [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on April 23rd, 2008 | 14 Comments »

Sick child? Whose turn is it?

April
16

Somebody’s got to stay home with the kid, right? That’s logical enough. But who misses a day of work?

A study last year by sociologist David Maume at the University of Cincinnati determined that moms are still significantly more likely to stay home than dads. Maume surveyed more than 1,400 parents and determined that 78% of [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on April 16th, 2008 | 7 Comments »

Daddypalooza

April
15

Sometimes dad needs a helping hand. Well, here it comes, thanks to the United Way of Westchester and Putnam, and Family Services of Westchester. They’re sponsoring the New York Father’s Conference in White Plains on April 26th. It’s long overdue, I say.

The idea is to bring together dads from all walks of life — be [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on April 15th, 2008 | Post a Comment »

Bad parent alert

April
7

How could you forget about your kid? Well, that’s what cops are saying happened in White Plains this weekend.

According to the story filed by my colleague Rich Liebson, city officers spotted a 2-year-old boy sitting alone in the back seat of car on Sunday, then waited. And waited. Ten minutes later, the boy’s 25-year-old dad [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on April 7th, 2008 | 1 Comment »

The ex-family unit

April
4

My son wants to make it to a Yankee game this year before they shut down the historic Bronx stadium for good and move next door. No problem there. I’m a longtime and avid fan, and took him to his first game there years ago. I myself have been going to games since 1970, when [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on April 4th, 2008 | 2 Comments »

The stress factor

March
28
Heck, everybody’s got stress. It’s just that the most stressed people I know happen to be parents in single-parent or blended family situations. So, I figured I would share this story that I came across on the newswire from Woman’s Day magazine.

I added the emphasis in the text below for effect. I mean, we [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on March 28th, 2008 | 3 Comments »

Growing apart?

March
27

I knew it would start sooner or later. It still stinks.

On Wednesday, I drove my son to school and, as is our norm, I parked in the lot and we walked into the building together. This has been something of a routine when he’s with me that we’ve done since pre-K, through various school buildings. [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on March 27th, 2008 | Post a Comment »

The single-parent blender

March
5

When I started writing here I thought that blogging as a single parent would offer a needed voice on our parenting blog. I hope I’ve been right. But something’s changed.

Several people have asked me if I am truly a single parent — my girlfriend among them. Well, yes and no. I am divorced and therefore [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on March 5th, 2008 | 1 Comment »

A beating in the ‘burbs

March
3

The video was striking: Four teenagers beating up a fifth teen during a violent encounter at a church parking lot in Ossining. At some point local cops said the kid taking the beating got a seven-inch gash across his neck. A 16-year-old girl is also punched in the face, and is threatened with more, at [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on March 3rd, 2008 | 3 Comments »

Child care debate

February
25
I was listening to one of the presidential primary debates recently and someone threw out a reference to child care costs, and how some Americans had trouble managing the $1,000 monthly cost. $1,000? Talk about low end. Move to Westchester, then we’ll talk child care costs.

I’m sure someone out there can point to [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on February 25th, 2008 | 1 Comment »

The Census speaks

February
21

I can’t say I’m a numbers geek, but I do like to look at the figures now and again to see how things play out demographically. With that in mind, this is new data from the U.S. Census that found that 94 percent of kids in the nation live with at least one biological parent.

Of [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on February 21st, 2008 | 1 Comment »

Competition

February
15

Here’s the scenario: A group of kids in a pre-K class were given a homework assignment that required them to make a snowman. It was part of an arts & crafts project. Sounds good, right? Fun for the kids; some creative input from the parents.

This was at the pre-K where my girlfriend’s son goes, and [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on February 15th, 2008 | 7 Comments »

Stepparent rules

February
8

Raising kids isn’t easy. It’s even harder when they’re not yours.
And there are two distinct sides to the dynamic: Your child and your partner’s child.
Yours: You have to learn to relinquish control, and allow that your partner is going to be in a parenting role with your child — regardless of how subtly you introduce them [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on February 8th, 2008 | Post a Comment »

Making it work

February
4
With so many unmarried couples moving in together, it was only a matter of time before lawyers figured out a way to make some cash from the situation. So now there’s an increase in cohabitation agreements, which lay out the rules for out-of-wedlock couples. This doesn’t apply just to single parent blended families, but [...]

Posted by Jorge Fitz-Gibbon on February 4th, 2008 | 2 Comments »

About this blog
Parents’ Place is a hangout for openly discussing the A’s to Z’s of raising a child in the Lower Hudson Valley. From deciding when to stop using a binky to when to let your teenager take driving lessons, Parents’ Place is here to let us all vent, share, and most of all, learn from each other.
Leading the conversation are Julie Moran Alterio, a business reporter and mom of a toddler, Jorge Fitz-Gibbon, a reporter and single father with joint custody of a 9-year-old son, and Len Maniace, a reporter and father of two sons.


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Julie Moran AlterioJulie Moran AlterioJulie Moran Alterio, her husband and baby girl — “Pumpkin” — share their Northern Westchester home with three iPods and more colorful plastic toys than seems necessary to entertain one tiny human. READ MORE
Jorge Fitz-GibbonJorge Fitz-GibbonJorge Fitz-Gibbon has been a journalist for more than 20 years and a father for nine. READ MORE
Jane LernerJane LernerJane Lerner covers health and hospitals for The Journal News in Rockland, where she lives with her husband and two children. READ MORE
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